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Frequently Asked Questions
Difference Between Realisation and Actualisation?
there any difference between a realisation and an actualisation?
RICHARD: Generally speaking a realisation is an understanding of something previously not
cognised and an actualisation is the putting of that comprehension into action ... as in acting upon that cognisance so that it is
experiential and not only intellectual.
• [Richard]: ‘It is the most stimulating adventure of a lifetime to embark upon a voyage into
one’s own psyche. Discovering the source of the Nile or climbing Mount Everest – or whatever physical venture – pales into
insignificance when compared to the thrill of finding out about life, the universe, and what it is to be a human being. I am having so much
fun ... those middle-aged or elderly people who bemoan their ‘lost youth’ leave me astonished. Back then I was – basically – lost,
lonely, frightened and confused. Accordingly, I set out on what was to become the most marvellous escapade possible. As soon as I understood
that there was nobody stopping me but myself, I had the autonomy to inquire, to seek, to investigate and to explore. As soon as I realised
nobody was standing in the way but myself, that realisation became an actualisation and I was free to encounter, to uncover, to discover and
to find the ‘secret to life’ or the ‘meaning of life’ or the ‘riddle of existence’, or the ‘purpose of the universe’ or
whatever one’s quest may be called. To dare to be me – to be what-I-am as an actuality – rather than the who ‘I’ was or the who ‘I’
am or the who ‘I’ will be, calls for an audacity unparalleled in the annals of history ... or one’s personal history, at least.
To seek and to find; to explore and uncover; to investigate and discover ... these actions are the very stuff of life!
Here is another:
• [Richard]: ‘Love is usually considered sacrosanct ... yet just as sorrow is essential for its
antidotal compassion to flourish love is the antitoxin for malice: without malice, love has no raison d’être. I started to empirically
encounter this, whilst sailing my yacht around tropical islands off the north-east coast of Australia with a choice companion, towards the end
of 1987 and by about mid 1988 the unfolding of experience came to its inevitable realisation. Strangely enough it was the disclosure of the
intrinsically manipulative nature of love – and ‘unconditional love’ at that – in 1987 which triggered the expansion of comprehension
and experiential understanding of the composition of the affective faculty ... with the concomitant growth of awareness.
It was with Love Agapé being such a ‘sacred cow’ that there had initially been considerable uneasiness about a direct investigation –
my initial enquiry had begun in India in 1984, whilst single and celibate, upon becoming suss about the Buddhist ‘karuna’
(pity-compassion) and ‘metta’ (loving-kindness) – hence there was a three year-long gestation period before the fact could be addressed
squarely. Eventually what happened was that at anchor one velvety night with an ebbing tide chuckling its way past the hull what I then called
‘The Absolute’ presented itself as being feminine – a Radiant Being initially seen to be Pure Love – which femininity I would nowadays
consider to be a product of me being of masculine gender. Due to an intensity of purpose there was the capacity to penetrate into the nature
of this ‘Radiant Being’ and I was able to see ‘Her’ other face:
It was Pure Evil – the Diabolical underpins the Divine – and upon such exposure ‘She’ (aka Love Agapé) disappeared forever ...
nevertheless it was not until 1992 that it all came to fruition.
There is a vast difference between ‘realisation’ and ‘actualisation’.
• [Richard]: ‘... many years ago, during my five years of an itinerant lifestyle, I would jot
down various things in pencil in a notebook: some time later (maybe six weeks or six months) when looking back through the jottings I would
quite often be taken by some of them and would wonder why I was not living them ... why they were not an actuality in my life.
In short: sometimes (or even quite often) it takes a while before a realisation becomes an actualisation.
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