Actual Freedom ~ Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Does Actualism Accept / Reject Ethics or Psychology?
RESPONDENT: Does responsibility and
seriousness come with being carefree?
RICHARD: No, the utter reliability of being always happy and harmless replaces the onerous
burden of being responsible ... and actuality’s blithe sincerity dispenses with the gloomy seriousness that epitomises adulthood.
It is funny – in a peculiar way – for I often gain the impression when I speak to others, that
I am spoiling their game-plan. It seems as if they wish to search forever ... they consider arriving to be boring. How can unconditional peace
and happiness, twenty-four-hours-a-day, possibly be boring? Is a carefree life all that difficult to comprehend? Why persist in a sick game
... and defend one’s right to do so? Why insist on suffering when blitheness is freely available here and now? Is a life of perennial gaiety
something to be scorned? I have even had people say, accusingly, that I could not possibly be happy when there is so much suffering going on
in the world. The logic of this defies credibility: Am I to wait until everybody else is happy before I am? If I was to wait, I would be
waiting forever ... for under this twisted rationale, no one would dare to be the first to be happy. Their peculiar reasoning allows only for
a mass happiness to occur globally; overnight success, as it were. Someone has to be intrepid enough to be first, to show what is possible to
a benighted humanity.
One has to face the opprobrium of one’s ill-informed peers.
RESPONDENT: Do you live a moral life? If so, why?
RICHARD: Being free from malice and sorrow, I am automatically happy and harmless. Thus I
have no need for morals whatsoever. Morals are designed to control the wayward self.
RESPONDENT: Would you lie, cheat and steal?
RICHARD: If the situation calls for it, yes indeed. Whilst some semblance of social order
prevails, such actions as stealing are not necessary. The government bureaucracy however, being adversarial by nature, occasionally calls for
some creative massaging of the truth regarding my life-style.
RESPONDENT: Which morals are your own and which are seen to exist
already?
RICHARD: Whilst not having any morals of my own, living in this particular country and
benefiting from human ingenuity and inventiveness as I do, I am more than happy to comply with the legal laws and follow the established
social protocols ... except for those that are too trifling to conform to and that I cannot be bothered observing anyway.
For example: I do not vote ... even though voting is compulsory in this country. The unelected
public servants actually run the country, so I could not care less which political party struts the stage. Mostly, their policies are
knee-jerk reactions to public opinion polls anyway ... so when some earnest scribe knocks on my door to ask my opinion I invite them in for a
cup of coffee. I then hold forth with my views on everything and anything until they stagger out the door with a glazed look on their face.
It does not change anything at all, though.
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RESPONDENT: If there is no good or evil, right or wrong, why would
you want to get rid of human sorrow?? That in itself is a value inferring that those things exist, are to be avoided, and should be
eliminated.
RICHARD: It is not a value ... it is simply sensible. Do you want to suffer? Do you really
enjoy it all that much? Is this not silly? We are talking of peace-on-earth ... and peace-on-earth is freedom from the Human Condition. The
Human Condition is a term that refers to the situation that all human beings find themselves in when they emerge here as babies. The term
refers to the contrary and perverse nature of all peoples of all races and all cultures. There is ‘good’ and ‘bad’ in everyone ... all
humans have a ‘dark side’ to their nature and a ‘light side’. The battle betwixt ‘Good and Evil’ has raged down through the
centuries and it requires constant vigilance lest evil gets the upper hand. Morals and ethics seek to control the wayward self that lurks deep
within the human breast ... and some semblance of so-called ‘peace’ prevails for the main. Where morality and ethicality fails to curb the
‘savage beast’, law and order is maintained ... at the point of a gun.
Freedom from the Human Condition is the ending of the ‘self’. The elimination of the ‘self’
is the demise of both ‘good’ and ‘bad’ within oneself. Then ‘Good’ and ‘Evil’ vanish forever along with the dissolution of the
psyche itself ... which is the only place they can live in.
Because there is no good or evil in the actual world of sensual delight – where I live as this
flesh and blood body – one then lives freely in the magical paradise that this verdant earth floating in the infinitude of the universe
actually is. Being here at this moment in time and this place in space is to be living in a fairy-tale-like ambience that is never-ending.
I can heartily recommend committing both psychological and psychic suicide.
RESPONDENT: And does your freedom entail the total
and complete erasure of the human consciousness that moves the common herd or just only the moral conditioning – the sense of right and
wrong, good and evil?
RICHARD: Yes, the total and complete erasure of the ‘human’ consciousness ... not just
conditioning. The moral conditioning – the sense of right and wrong and what you called the knowledge of good and evil – are well-meant
endeavours by countless peoples over countless aeons to seek to curb the instinctual passions. By and large this enterprise has proved to be
relatively effective ... only a minority of citizens fail to behave in a socially acceptable manner. And although well-meant, it is but an
ultimately short-sighted effort to prevent gaols from being filled to over-flowing, because people are irked by the restraints imposed upon
what they indulgently imagine is the freedom of the natural state. Now, while most people paddle around on the surface and re-arrange the
conditioning to ease their lot somewhat, some people – seeking to be free of all human conditioning – fondly imagine that by putting on a
face-mask and snorkel that they have gone deep-sea diving with a scuba outfit ... deep into the human condition. They have not ... they have
gone deep only into the human conditioning. When they tip upon the instincts – which are both savage (fear and aggression) and tender
(nurture and desire) – they grab for the tender (the ‘good’ side) and blow them up all out of proportion. If they succeed in this
self-aggrandising hallucination they start talking twaddle dressed up as sagacity such as: ‘There is a good that knows no evil’ or
‘There is a love that knows no opposite’ or ‘There is a compassion that sorrow has never touched’ and so on. This is because it takes
nerves of steel to don such an aqua-lung and plunge deep in the stygian depths of the human psyche ... it is not for the faint of heart or the
weak of knee. For the deletion of the software package is the extinction of ‘me’ at the core of ‘being’. That is, ‘being’ itself
expires.
The reward for so doing is immeasurable, however.
The altered state of consciousness known as ‘Spiritual Enlightenment’ needs to be talked about
and exposed for what it is so that nobody need venture up that blind alley ever again. There is another way and another goal. The main trouble
with enlightenment is that whilst the identity as ego dissolves, the identity as soul remains intact. No longer identifying as a personal
ego-bound identity, one then identifies as an impersonal soul-bound identity ... ‘I am That’ or ‘I am God’ or ‘I am The Supreme’
or ‘I am The Absolute’ or ‘I am The Buddha’ and so on. This is the delusion, the mirage, the deception ... and it is extremely
difficult to see it for oneself, for one is in an august state. This second identity – the second ‘I’ of Mr. Venkataraman Aiyer (aka
Ramana) fame – is a difficult one to shake, maybe more difficult than the first; for who is brave enough to voluntarily give up fame and
fortune, reverence and worship, status and security? One has to be scrupulously honest with oneself to go all the way and no longer be a
someone, a somebody of importance. One faces extinction; ‘I’ will cease to be, there will be no ‘being’ whatsoever, no ‘presence’
at all. It is impossible to imagine, not only the complete and utter cessation of ‘me’ in ‘my’ entirety, but the end of any
‘Ultimate Being’ or ‘Absolute Presence’ in any way, shape or form. It means that no one or no thing is in charge of the universe ...
that there is no ‘Ultimate Authority’. It means that all values are but human values, with no absolute values at all to fall back upon. It
is impossible for one to conceive that without a wayward ‘I’ there is no need for either a compliant ‘me’ or any values whatsoever ...
or an ‘Ultimate Authority’.
This is what freedom from the Human Condition is.
RESPONDENT: Does actualism reject the useful
application of empirical wisdom such as ethics and psychology?
RICHARD: You may find the following illuminating:
• [Richard]: ‘I am not at all altruistic – nor unselfish – let alone nurturing ... ‘twas
the identity inhabiting the body who was. And the altruism I spoke of (further above) – altruistic ‘self’-immolation – is a
once-in-a-lifetime event and not the real-world day-to-day altruism (unselfishness) ... such everyday unselfishness falls under the category
of morality or ethicality. Where I use the word altruism in a non-biological sense is where it is synonymic to the magnanimity of benevolence
... for example:
[Richard]: ‘In order to mutate from the self-centred licentiousness to a self-less sensualism,
one must have confidence in the ultimate beneficence of the universe. This confidence – this surety – can be gained from a pure
consciousness experience, wherein ‘I’, the psychological entity [and ‘me’, the psychic entity], temporarily ceases to exist. Life is
briefly seen to be already perfect and innocent ... it is a life-changing experience. One is physically experiencing first-hand, albeit
momentarily, this actual world – a spontaneously benevolent world – that antedates the normal world. The normal world is commonly known as
the real world or reality. (...) The experience of purity is a benefaction. Out of this blessing comes pure intent, which will consistently
guide one through the travails of daily life, gently ushering in an increasing ease and generosity of character. With this growing
magnanimity, one becomes more and more anonymous, more and more self-less. With this expanding altruism one becomes less and less
self-centred, less and less egocentric. Eventually the moment comes wherein something definitive happens, physically, inside the brain and
‘I’ am nevermore. ‘Being’ ceases – it was only a psychic apparition anyway – and war is over, forever, in one human being’. (pages 124-125: ‘Richard’s Journal’ ©The Actual Freedom Trust 1997).
The growing magnanimity (an increasing generosity of character) referred to as an expanding
altruism is a munificent well-wishing ... the etymological root of the word benevolent is the Latin ‘benne velle’ (meaning ‘wish
well’). And well-wishing stems from fellowship regard – like species recognise like species throughout the animal world – for we are all
fellow human beings and have the capacity for what is called a ‘theory of mind’.
The way to an actual freedom from the human condition is the same as an actual freedom from the human condition – the means to the end are
not different from the end – inasmuch that where one is happy and harmless as an on-going modus operandi benevolence operates of its own
accord ... you partly indicated this (above) where you commented that people are generally helpful toward each other when feeling happy. Where
benevolence is flourishing morals and ethics, as a matter of course, fall redundant by the wayside ... unused, unneeded and unnecessary.
RESPONDENT: And I mean empirical (proven results through the
scientific method).
RICHARD: I will rephrase the last sentence (of the above quote) for emphasis:
• Where benevolence is flourishing ‘empirical (proven results through the scientific
method)’ morals and ethics, as a matter of course, fall redundant by the wayside ... unused, unneeded and unnecessary.
RESPONDENT: I mean some very complex ethical issues in my Mental
Health work require me to be able to reason Consequentially (i.e. Utilitarian, Situational Ethics), utilize ethical principles (Social Work
Values, deontological principles), and have a virtue ethic (having pro-social habits – now actualism (and being in the moment with one’s
senses/emotions/thought – which is a part of actualism but not exclusive to actualism) comes in here as it removes the ego/soul which of
course has the pro-social benefit of altruism. Does actualism deny all this?
RICHARD: First of all, ‘being in the moment’ with one’s
senses/emotions/thoughts is not part of actualism ... thus any question about exclusivity is without substance.
Second, actualism does not come ‘in here’ (in here with utilitarian ethics, situational
ethics, ethical principles, social work values, deontological principles, a virtue ethic) at all.
Last, but not least, the ending of both ‘I’ as ego and ‘me’ as soul does not have the ‘pro-social
benefit of altruism’. For just one example:
• [Richard]: ‘I am not altruistic – altruism is an instinctual inheritance which expires as
the identity – and any and all (seemingly altruistic) actions are motivated solely by the fellowship regard engendered by an actual intimacy
with every body and every thing and every event.
It is all so simple here in this actual world.
RESPONDENT: I’m sorry, being selfless cannot answer a complex
ethical situation with multiple parties where some of the party’s happiness must be sacrificed because of limited resources.
RICHARD: Being ‘self’-less in toto renders any ‘complex ethical situation’
(and any complex ethical solution) null and void.
RESPONDENT: Do you see what I’m trying to convey?
RICHARD: Yes.
RESPONDENT: Have I missed something?
RICHARD: Yes.
RESPONDENT: Now that my mind is no longer shackled by religion (and
actualism was a major determinate of this secular shift, which I of course had no real free choice in the first place since we are all
organisms of causality) I am seeing the richness and sometimes the complexity of life situations.
RICHARD: If actualism has been a major determinant in your shift from spiritualism to
materialism then you are not the first to report such an event ... and probably will not be the last.
Howsoever, actualism – the third alternative to both materialism and spiritualism – has nowt to
do with either.
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RESPONDENT: I meant by philosophy the ‘love of wisdom’ ...
RICHARD: I am only too happy to re-phrase my response so as to be in accord with what you
mean by saying that actualism is a philosophy: as actualism – the direct experience that matter is not merely passive – is not ‘the
love of wisdom’ then the question as to whether or not it is well-rounded and/or all-embracing and/or sensible and/or narrow love of
wisdom is irrelevant. And just so that there is no misunderstanding: actualism is not the love of an ideology either ... or of an idea, an
ideal, a belief, a concept, an opinion, a conjecture, a speculation, an assumption, a presumption, a supposition, a surmise, an inference, a
judgement, an intellectualisation, an imagination, a posit, an image, an analysis, a viewpoint, a view, a stance, a perspective, a standpoint,
a position, a world-view, a mind-set, a state-of-mind, a frame-of-mind, a metaphysics or any other of the 101 ways of down-playing/dismissing
a direct report of what it is to be actually free from the human condition and living the utter peace of the perfection of the purity welling
endlessly as the infinitude this eternal, infinite and perpetual universe actually is.
RESPONDENT: [I meant by philosophy the ‘love of wisdom’] which
is an experiential knowledge, application, and living of wisdom.
RICHARD: I am only too happy to re-phrase my response so as to be in accord with what you
mean by saying that actualism is a love of wisdom: as actualism – the direct experience that matter is not merely passive – is not ‘an
experiential knowledge, application, and living of wisdom’ then the question as to whether or not it is well-rounded and/or
all-embracing and/or sensible and/or narrow experiential knowledge, application, and living of wisdom is irrelevant. And just so that there is
no misunderstanding: actualism is not an experiential knowledge, application, and living of an ideology either ... or of an idea, an ideal, a
belief, a concept, an opinion, a conjecture, a speculation, an assumption, a presumption, a supposition, a surmise, an inference, a judgement,
an intellectualisation, an imagination, a posit, an image, an analysis, a viewpoint, a view, a stance, a perspective, a standpoint, a
position, a world-view, a mind-set, a state-of-mind, a frame-of-mind, a metaphysics or any other of the 101 ways of down-playing/dismissing a
direct report of what it is to be actually free from the human condition and living the utter peace of the perfection of the purity welling
endlessly as the infinitude this eternal, infinite and perpetual universe actually is.
RESPONDENT: Actualism’s living w/o ego/soul falls under this
description.
RICHARD: Au contraire ... it does no such thing.
RESPONDENT: Ok. One can call a philosophy of life simply empirical
things like its healthy to get enough sleep, get movement in (i.e. reasonable exercise), eat a well balanced diet of foods, learn a language,
play music, play chess (if one enjoys it of course), engage the mind in mathematics and science, learn to think, feel one’s feelings, etc.
RICHARD: As you have increasingly down-played actualism – the direct experience that
matter is not merely passive – to the point of now equating it to vague generalisations, which you say can constitute a philosophy of life,
about some unspecified health benefits of enough sleep, reasonable exercise, well-balanced diet, learning language, playing music, playing
chess (provided it be enjoyable), mind-engagement in mathematics and science, learning to think, feeling one’s emotions and passions, and so
on, there is obviously no point in me continuing to report/ describe/ explain what actualism actually is ... and what it is not.
Especially so in view of the fact that your very next e-mail (to another) after this one espouses
the virtues of materialism.
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RESPONDENT: Maybe, I’m not writing well.
RICHARD: You have been abundantly clear all along ... and you are not the first to have
taken the report/ description/ explanation of life here in this actual world and endeavoured to turn it into, and/or relate it to,
ethicalistic/ moralistic principles and/or values and/or virtues and/or standards and/or models and/or systems and/or conventions and/or norms
and/or mores and/or maxims and/or axioms and/or postulates and/or dictums and/or directives and/or tenets and/or doctrines and/or policies
and/or codes and/or canons and/or rules and/or regulations and/or laws, and so on, and you probably will not be the last.
RESPONDENT: Richard, as you have used LeDoux,
perhaps this [General Sensate Focusing Technique] can be of service. (snip link).
RICHARD: First of all, the only use I have ever made of Mr. Joseph LeDoux is his laboratory
evidence that a sensate signal goes first to the affective circuitry (albeit a split-second first) and then to the cognitive circuitry ... for
example [snip examples].:
RESPONDENT: Ok.
RICHARD: This is the ‘only use’ being referred to (in the first example provided of what
I have written on other occasions on this topic):
• [Richard]: ‘... the only reason that any reference is made to them [to scientific studies
such as Mr. Joseph LeDoux’s laboratory evidence] on The Actual Freedom Web Page *is so that other people do not have to take my word for
it* that the feelings arise before thought in the reactionary process (albeit a split-second first). [emphasis added].
In other words, I have never, ever, personally ‘used LeDoux’ ... as made crystal clear
with this sentence:
• [Richard]: ‘And, furthermore, his [Mr. Joseph LeDoux’s] laboratory work *played no part
whatsoever* in becoming actually free from the human condition. [emphasis added].
Thus all that is left of your (further above) sentence is this:
• [example only]: ‘Richard, perhaps Mr. Ilan Shalif’s General Sensate Focusing Technique can
be of service. [end example].
And just whom might it be ‘of service’ to? None other than this person (from further
below):
• [Respondent]: ‘Perhaps his [Mr. Ilan Shalif’s] detailed instruction of how to sensately
focus could be of use for a beginning actualist’. [endquote].
As Mr. Joseph LeDoux’s laboratory evidence is qualitatively different to Mr. Ilan Shalif’s
psychological management technique here is my question: why would his, or any, psychological management technique be of use/be of service to a
person setting foot on the wide and wondrous path to an actual freedom from the human condition? Vis.:
• [Mr. Ilan Shalif]: ‘I sought for a better way to *manage* the human emotional life.
(...) After locating new ways to *manage* the emotional and sensual part of life, it seemed suitable to share it with others’.
[emphasises added]. (http://shalif.com/psychology/content1.htm#PROLOGUE).
RESPONDENT: It ain’t AF, but he does a precise job instructing
how to focus on sensations and feelings. It would be up to any individual to discover if that could be of any use to them. It is of no use to
you, clear enough.
RICHARD: As nothing is of use to me personally – including the actualism method – then
obviously I am not making myself clear: Mr. Ilan Shalif’s psychological management technique, which is qualitatively different to Mr. Joseph
LeDoux’s laboratory evidence, is of no use whatsoever to a person setting foot upon the wide and wondrous path to an actual freedom from the
human condition ... whereas Mr. Joseph LeDoux’s laboratory evidence can be of use inasmuch such a person need not take my word for it that
the feelings arise before thought in the reactionary process (albeit a split-second first).
If this is now clear – that you unwarrantedly linked the two persons, thus falsely ascribing an
associative value to the second person, in your intro to the link you provided – then we can look at your (revised) reason as to why you are
promoting/endorsing Mr. Ilan Shalif’s psychological management technique on a mailing list set-up to discuss peace-on-earth, in this
lifetime, as this flesh and blood body ... to wit: that he (purportedly) does a precise job instructing how to focus on sensations and
feelings and that it would be up to any individual (presumably a beginning actualist) to discover if that could be of any use to them
(presumably in conjunction with the actualism method).
Okay?
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RICHARD: In short (more on this below): actualism is not a management technique, a coping
mechanism, or any other kind of psychological system.
RESPONDENT: I know.
RICHARD: Then why would you promote/endorse such a system on a mailing list set-up to
discuss peace-on-earth, in this lifetime, as this flesh and blood body?
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RICHARD: As for the link you provided to Mr. Ilan Shalif’s web site ... if you could
provide an example of how his ‘General Sensate Focusing Technique’ has been, or is being, ‘of service’ to you in regards to the
actualism method there will then be something of substance to discuss.
RESPONDENT: 1) The GSFT was a pointer that peace could be found out
side of spirituality – thus a precursor to be being open to AF.
RICHARD: I copy-pasted the word <peace> into a search engine and sent it through Mr.
Ilan Shalif’s entire web site ... only to have it return nil hits. Howsoever the word ‘serenity’ features several times ... for
instance:
• [Mr. Ilan Shalif]: ‘... those [ongoing appraisals] of the structure in charge of assessing
the amount of present and future dangers, are made along the ‘Fear-Serenity’ continuum which is better known as the Basic Emotion of
‘fear’. (http://shalif.com/psychology/content1.htm#KEY TO).
The ‘Fear-Serenity continuum’ referred to there is otherwise known as Mr. Charles Darwin’s
second principle in his theory of emotion. Vis.:
• [Mr. Ilan Shalif]: ‘In the second principle of his [Mr. Charles Darwin’s] theory, he
claimed that each of the basic emotions consists of a pair of bipolar antitheses – like the two opposing poles of fear and serenity’. (http://shalif.com/psychology/who-win.htm).
And:
• [Mr. Ilan Shalif]: ‘A study was carried out (...) Results support Darwin’s claim that each
of the basic emotions is a bipolar entity. (http://shalif.com/psychology/who-win.htm#Top).
And:
• [Mr. Ilan Shalif]: ‘... our study gives substantial support to Darwin’s (1872) second
principle of emotion which claims that the inborn emotions are bipolar. The bipolar findings are also congruent with findings of modern
neurological studies of the Amigdala of the Limbic system of the brain. Clearly demonstrating this are findings about the bipolarity function
of the Amigdala in the creation of the emotional experience of the basic emotions – as showed by Fonberg (1986) and Panksep (1986). (http://shalif.com/psychology/who-win.htm).
Thus if ‘serenity’ is indeed the ‘peace’ you are referring to then it is to be found
somewhere towards one pole of the ‘fear-serenity continuum’ in what Mr. Ilan Shalif classifies as ‘the Basic [bipolar] Emotion of
‘fear’’ ... which means that, for there to be serenity in his management plan, the instinctual passion of fear must persist.
RESPONDENT: 2) I have broke some habits with it: a) obsessive TV
watching. b) smoking. c) overeating. c) and others of a more personal nature.
RICHARD: As most things humans do are habitual then for no other reason than because you say
‘obsessive’ in regards television viewing, and as ‘overeating’ is another way of saying ‘excessive’, I will presume
you are referring to habits which fall into the obsessive-compulsive-excessive category – else it makes no sense to single out a few amongst
the many for attention – such as obsessive and/or compulsive and/or excessive hand-washing, for an obvious instance, or obsessive and/or
compulsive and/or excessive sex, for another (there are a multitude of such usual, regular, routine, consistent, normal, customary, ordinary,
everyday activities which can become a concern for such obsessive-compulsive-excessive reasons).
As Mr. Ilan Shalif makes no secret of the fact that his technique is designed to dispense with
having to have recourse to counsellors, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, and any other professionals of that ilk, it is not all that
surprising you have had success in those areas. Vis.:
• [Mr. Ilan Shalif]: ‘The popularity of dealing with psychology in the past decades, has
resulted in an increased awareness of the different processes which occur within the individual. (...) There are also more people who are no
longer content – and thus *do not consent to leave their feelings and ‘emotional problems’ to the professionals who specialize in
this field*. This trend is similar to the spreading tendency to take part in sports and other physical activities for health and body
maintenance outside of any formal framework or organization. This tendency expresses – among other things – the wish to eliminate the
monopoly of orthopedics and other specialists on the maintenance of the well-being of the skeleton and muscles. Similar tendencies can be
found in the wide stream of movements for *the liberation of the individual from the reign of ‘Professionals and authorities in their
field’*. This stream expresses the growing tendency of people to take responsibility for their own functioning and place in the world.
(‘Eliminating School’ and ‘Medicine’s revenge’ of Ivan Ilitch are among the outstanding books aimed at achieving this end through
‘destructive’ means. They try to do it through their contribution of ‘Exposing the conspiracy of the experts of the establishment’.)
There are also ‘constructive’ means to meet this end. Many people take the trouble to make organized knowledge – based on applied
sciences – available (accessible) to the layman. They take the pain to ‘translate’ scientific findings and professional publications
into texts written in everyday language, and invent new techniques of the ‘do it yourself’ type. And so, the previously mysterious
knowledge of the chosen few becomes intelligible to the ordinary person, who with this help *can becomes (sic) independent of professional
assistance*. The knowledge accumulated by me and my trainees and brought to this book – and especially that which is brought to the
chapter ‘Do it yourself’ is of the ‘constructionist’ kind. It contributes our share to the growing body of knowledge that *enables
the liberation of the individual from total dependency on professionals*. This growing body of knowledge contributes more than any other
modern factor to the growing feeling of the freedom of people in modern times. *One is no longer forced to choose, again and again, between
self-neglect or fearfully submitting to the experts* ...’ [emphasises added]. (http://shalif.com/psychology/content1.htm#FOR
WHOM).
RESPONDENT: Sure – there is something to it – and its free.
RICHARD: If I may point out? There is probably ‘something to’ all of the 101
psychological management techniques available these days to the lay public ... quite possibly any one of them could have enabled you to have
had success in those obsessive-compulsive-excessive areas.
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RESPONDENT: 3) I have improved my emotional climate: a) I have
reduced the intensity and frequency of ‘being angry’. b) I have reduced the intensity and frequency of anxiety.
RICHARD: There are, of course, 101 psychological management techniques available these days
to the lay public and, as you have made it known previously you work in the mental health field, it is understandable that you would have an
interest in that area ... howsoever, as psychology/psychiatry has not brought, is not bringing, and will not bring, peace-on-earth, nothing
that a psychological/psychiatric approach has to offer has, is, or will, be of use/be of service to a person setting foot on the wide and
wondrous path to an actual freedom from the human condition.
RESPONDENT: All w/o god, spirituality, meditation, therapy, money,
ideology, ‘positive’ thinking. 10 months of off and on again use. I do wish I would have done it intensively before AF, so I could have a
better contrast. I thought the scientific study of the emotions with a corresponding non-spiritual method might be of interest to you.
RICHARD: I came across Mr. Ilan Shalif’s web site about two-three years ago ...
psychological/psychiatric management techniques/coping mechanisms hold no interest to me.
Moreover, on his other web site, where he promotes and promulgates [quote] ‘anarchism and other
communist libertarian’ [endquote] societies, he has the following quotes and comments:
• ‘Without struggle, there is no progress’ (Frederick Douglass). Let’s struggle.
• ‘We cannot dismantle the master’s house using the master’s tools’ (Audre Lorde). Let’s create new tools.
• ‘... by any means necessary’ (Malcolm X). Let’s strategize, mobilize and generate the means. (http://shalif.com/anarchy/).
The carte blanche nature of that last quote – ‘by any means necessary’ – leaves me totally
uninterested in anything at all he has to say.
RESPONDENT: Perhaps his detailed instruction of how to sensately
focus could be of use for a beginning actualist.
RICHARD: Given that Mr. Ilan Shalif’s management plan depends upon the instinctual
passions remaining firmly in situ forever in just what way could his detailed instruction on how to ‘sensately focus’ be of use for
a beginning actualist?
RESPONDENT: Of course GSFT is not AF.
RICHARD: Of course not ... and, as the elimination of fear (for just one instance) would
mean, for a General Sensate Focusing Technique practitioner, the ending of their serenity, it never will be.
Just as no other psychological/psychiatric management technique ever will either.
RESPONDENT: Until psychological/psychiatric management techniques
start sensible talk about self-immolating, AF will have no cousins, let alone sisters, brothers or parents.
RICHARD: Which, of course, includes the ‘General Sensate Focusing [Management]
Technique’ and, speaking personally, I will not be holding my breath whilst waiting for them to start as job security, if nothing else, will
hinder such ‘sensible talk’ as you refer to.
And here is a clue as to why: it will not only mean the ending of psychological/psychiatric
management techniques/coping mechanisms but the end of psychology/psychiatry per se.
What do you reckon the first five letters in both those words refers to?
SRINATH [Message № 232xx; Slack Digest 03Aug16; 02:29 PM]: Excellent science article on empathy which I found very relevant to my work. Also it aligns with near-actual caring:
Attachment: Nautilus – Issue 35: Boundaries: How to Avoid Empathy Burnout [by Jamil Zaki; April 7, 2016; "Caregivers can benefit
by understanding a patient’s pain without feeling it themselves"]. .... but not the last self-love bit which came out of the blue! [bracketed insert added].
ADDENDUM [Message № 232xx; Slack Digest 04Aug16; 02:22 AM]: Actually
I’m seeing that the article for the most part doesn’t align with near-actual caring or naive intimacy. But it does advocate not taking on
emotional contagion, pragmatism and boundaries – which I suppose are sensible real world ways of care-giving.
G’day Srinath,
As the above article on ‘Empathy Burnout’ (a near-cousin to ‘Compassion Fatigue’) which you
link to, and publicly commend as being an [quote] “excellent science article” [endquote] on the
‘Nautilus Magazine’ web site, was composed by an assistant professor of psychology – whose research focuses on
the cognitive and neural bases of social behaviour at the Stanford Social Neuroscience Laboratory – it would surely take nothing short of a
miracle for any such social behaviourist to write anything at all which even for the least part [quote] “aligns
with” [endquote] what Vineeto wrote of as constituting “a caring as close to an actual caring as an
identity can muster” on the 17th of January 2010 (as quoted by Claudiu in Message № 23185 and re-presented in my Message
№ 23198
to you as per the top of this page) let alone via them craftily redefining what the word empathy
means.
Essentially, what the author describes as [quote] “a third way” [endquote] to the
self-preservation of becoming empathetically calloused, with its blunted responsiveness, and the crushing risk which the burden of
empathically caring imparts – which third way he specifically references as being [quote] “detachment” [endquote] mind you – is
a therapeutic distancing technique similar to and/or drawn from and/or based upon [quote] “Buddhist-inspired compassion meditation
training” [endquote] whereby savvy social behaviourist-type therapists and counsellors consciously shed a pattern of feeling the
other’s emotional pain (which vicarious-feeling is what the word empathy has referred to ever since it was coined, in 1908, to
translate the 1858 German word Einfühlung into English) and replace it with patterns of motivation and even positive emotion ... to
wit: “a key feature of successful therapy is therapists’ communication of warmth and understanding toward their patients”.
A non-empathic warmth, that is, engendered by an intellectual understanding drawn from impressions
based upon verbal and visual cues alone.
The following half-a-dozen or so paragraphs from that ‘Empathy Burnout’ article more or less
convey these essential aspects (with over a dozen key features highlighted, for convenience in referencing those essential aspects, and
explanatory info inserted within curled brackets).
Viz.:
• [Assist. Prof. Jamil Zaki]: “Caregivers can benefit by understanding a patient’s pain *without
feeling it themselves*. (...). *Patients thrive from emotional connection with nurses, social workers, and therapists*, but helpers
who provide this connection can wilt under its force. The stress of caring can lead to astonishing levels of job turnover. According to one
review, 30 to 60 percent of social workers in high-impact sectors, such as child abuse, leave their jobs each year. When caregivers flame out
at such rates, it opens cracks in the continuity of care, through which patients frequently fall. Even helpers who do stay often harden
themselves to their patients’ emotions. Medical students report lower levels of empathy as their training progresses. Health-care
professionals underestimate patients’ suffering and even display blunted physiological signs of empathy for pain. Many helpers feel that
they face a double bind. They can preserve themselves by growing emotional callouses and blunting their responses to those in need. Or they
can throw themselves into building connections with their patients and risk being crushed by the weight of caring. New research suggests *a
third way*. Caregivers need to be empathetic, but empathy is not one thing. Both neuroscience and psychology have uncovered an important
distinction between two aspects of empathy: emotion contagion, which is *vicariously sharing another person’s feeling*, and empathic
concern, which entails *forming a goal* to alleviate that person’s suffering. Whereas contagion involves *blurring the boundary
between self and other*, concern requires *retaining or even strengthening such boundaries*. Learning to practice one but not the
other could be the best example of how caregivers can simultaneously look out for patients and for themselves. (...).
Many helpers have rededicated themselves, through organisations such as the Secondary Trauma Resource Centre, to help their colleagues
maintain a healthy lifestyle. Their efforts connect with research suggesting that helpers’ success hinges on their ability to experience
concern while avoiding contagion {i.e., while avoiding vicariously sharing another person’s feeling; a.k.a., empathy}. When other people’s emotions flood into us, it can make it harder for us to help them. Patients, after all, are often too
distressed to realise what might aid them; that is not a condition the helper should emulate. As one clinician put it, “Once you are *in
the shoes of your patient*, you cannot possibly be of any help”. Rene McCreary {a counsellor also working in the Kansas City
area} describes the state she strives for in her interactions with patients: “I try not to metabolise [sic] their trauma, which allows me to hear what they have to share and not become what they have to share ... I need to be as
irrelevant as possible, and *keep the experience about them*”. Allison Basinger {a deeply religious person who visits local
middle and high schools, to educate students about unhealthy relationships and teen dating violence, under the auspices of a Kansas City-area
organisation which supports teenage survivors of domestic violence} takes *a different approach to detachment*,
trying to model for patients how much better they might feel after treatment: “I try to be the face of resilience, to show them how things
could be for them”. Research suggests that these strategies can offer an antidote to burnout {i.e., via avoiding empathy}. In the 1980s, the psychologist Katherine Miller and her colleagues suggested that a key feature of successful therapy is
therapists’ communication of warmth and understanding toward their patients. She found that concern facilitates such communication, whereas
contagion {i.e., empathy} interferes with it. Therapists’ ability to *separate themselves* from their
patients’ suffering {i.e., separate themselves from empathy via avoiding vicariously sharing another person’s feeling} also staved off secondary trauma. (...).
In one remarkable demonstration of such empathic tuning, the neuroscientist Tania Singer engaged a group of subjects in *Buddhist-inspired
compassion meditation training*. (...). Singer and her colleagues scanned participants’ brain responses to others’ distress before and
after the meditation training. Before, people demonstrated physiological signs of contagion – for instance, engaging parts of their brain
associated with *feeling pain* {i.e., vicariously sharing another person’s feeling; a.k.a., empathy}
when watching others experience it. After the training, however, they *shed this pattern* {i.e., they shed empathy} and instead exhibited a pattern of brain activity more commonly associated with motivation and even positive emotion. Singer
believes this type of training might allow helpers to “tune” empathy toward concern, working with it but not allowing it to take them over
(...)”. [emphases added]. [http://nautil.us/issue/35/boundaries/how-to-avoid-empathy-burnout].
As your reassessment now has you seeing how the article [quote] “for the
most part” [endquote] does not align with a caring which is as close to an actual caring as an identity can muster – a caring
which prioritises an actual happiness over an affective happiness any day of the week (inasmuch an actual caring is epitomised by an
ever-present preference for the self-imposed suffering of one’s fellow human being to come to an end, forever, sooner rather than later) –
it is somewhat intriguing to contemplate just what constitutes the least part, of the above scholastical research by Mr. Jamil Zaki (all duly
referenced by the in-accord judgments of Ms. Allison Basinger, Ms. Rene McCreary, Ms. Katherine Miller, Ms. Tania Singer, et aliae), which
evidently still remains aligned in your eyes.
Incidentally, despite stating upfront that “patients thrive from emotional connection with
nurses, social workers, and therapists”, the central theme of this article which you commend as being [quote] “very
relevant to my work” [endquote] is all about depriving those patients of what they thrive upon – that “emotional
connection” popularly known as empathy (as in, “vicariously sharing another person’s feeling”, that is) but artfully designated
“emotional contagion” in academe – and providing said patients with what the caregivers thrive on, instead, via a remarkably deft
sleight-of-hand vis-à-vis what the word empathy has referred to since it was coined 108 years ago (so as to translate into English what the
German Einfühlung has meant for 158 years).
Here is a possible reason why:
• [Assist. Prof. Jamil Zaki]: “Helping professionals – in fields such as social work,
psychotherapy, and hospice care – are the emotional counterparts to first responders {i.e., fire-fighters, police officers and
emergency medical technicians}, gravitating toward experiences the rest of us avoid. (...). Surveys of career helpers
find they are *more likely* to report family histories of abuse or substance dependence than professionals in finance, music, and
science”. [emphasis added]. (http://nautil.us/issue/35/boundaries/how-to-avoid-empathy-burnout).
Hence also the high rates of ‘empathy burnout’, of course, as the relationship betwixt helper
and helpee – as per the ‘Helper Therapy Principle’ (proposed as “an age-old therapeutic approach” by Dr. Frank Riessman; pp. 27-32,
‘Social Work’, Vol 10‹2›, 1965) – is oft-times of a symbiotic nature.
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Given that psychiatry has had at least 150+ years to demonstrate its efficacy in dealing with human suffering – without a
single recorded success in bringing such suffering to an end, forever, in any human being anywhere in the world – it is surely an exercise
in futility to even think for a moment (let alone type-out a commendation and click ‘send’) that an assistant professor researching social
behaviour at the Stanford Social Neuroscience Laboratory would have anything at all to contribute to a discussion about a caring which is
entirely new to human experience/ human history.
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